Are you asking why your W does not appear to have the same level of interest/concerns for S as you do?
I am because this the the woman who gave birth to this incredible individual- just want to know what must be going on in her head. For me this would be a slow death.
You are comparing your W's feelings & actions to your own. Currently, she has a completely different mindset. The person you M is not who she is at the moment.
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As sandi says, it usually takes something to snap them out of it Steve thanks for the info- but would not loosing your S be a big enough impact to snap out of it?
Logically thinking, it seems it would, right? However, the LBH can't predict what will bring her back to her senses. Sometimes, it is accumulative losses.
She is disillusioned by her fantasy. She wants to believe the lie, the dream, the fairy dust.
It is painful to watch kids suffer due to poor parenting. Like everything else, you cannot make her be a good mother. Yes, it is her loss, and your S's, as well. It's something they will have to work out.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
