Live in baby sitter

I would take that as an insult

You are a proud father

Do not let her demote you

Maybe she feels like a baby sitter to her children

But you do not have to accept anyone speaking to you like that

Demand respect

Even if she has no self respect

You may not care if she speaks to you like that

But do you care if she refers to you as the live in baby sitter to your children

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving