. She initiates a lot of text convos. Just wait to respond and be short and sweet?
Yes..
Or just say f it and do my own beach trips w D3.
Yes. I understand that you want to play family, but that is some serious cake eating. Have your own fun beach trip with D and let your W see what she is missing...
Thoughts on celebrating D3 birthday together?
No. For the same reason stated above. Have your own awesome party for her...
I have Seen some posts of success stories from michelle talking about being a great friend to spouse and then R. That is what seems to work best. Limit my contact w her and when we do interact be happy bubbly like a nice friend happy to see D3 etc.
Don't let yourself get restricted to the friend zone, dude. Anyone can be her friend. I think you want more than that. By all means, be friend-ly, but be careful about being just a friend
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
