Please do not validate abuse.

T solidifies the abusers view of the sitch. It makes things WORSE.

Do not apologise to someone who is abusing you. They lose respect for you. It appeased.

There are four reactions to abuse, freeze, fight, flight or fawn. Fawning is very very weak.

Please Do not apologise or validate. Set boundaries.

Validation is not good.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW