So I went and got legal advice today. She cannot sell the house as its in joint names. We cannot also start divorce proceedings until a year after the split. I now keep a diary of all her actions and strange behaviors towards me or the kids. The lawyer did say that I should tell her that she should be paying her half of the mortgage. But that would open up World war 3. But I will keep it in mind if she presses about money issues.
Nothing really to report last night, She asks me something, then just doesn't hang around for the response. But I'm pleasant and singing. Getting a life and playing soccer.