Kml, thats a good point. Maybe im rushing things, and i certainly dont want son to be hurt or feel rejection if things dont work out.
I dont think he is thinking that way though. He offered to babysit for me 4 to 5 months in when i had an difficult situation. In the beginning he also talked about setting up video games systems up for him to play. I never took him up on it cause i thought it was too early.
So im just worried that his true colors are showing now. That he is not who he seemed like in the beginning. That i saw something thats not really there, bit i wanted it to be there.
This was my issue with ex. Ex avoided spending time with me and son. Its one thing i do not want to repeat.
So what if hes like that too? I want to know and avoid that now. And i know he has no obligation torwards my son. But i dont want to waste time on someone that does not like my son either.
If i wait another year and i dont like their relationship, thats a lot of time i wasted on someone.
