What Cadet said made a lot of sense to me Lonewlf, WW is a wounded, angry, confused animal who does not realize right from wrong. We cannot understand how they can change so much or behave like this but it is a disease of the mind. It shows its ugliness in their unfathomable behavior. If she is not involved with S, it is sad and her loss. As a mother I cannot understand that ever, wayward or not. But she has made her choice, and your love and care is enough for your S. Cherish the bond you have. I know people say its worse because you have kids and you cannot go completely dark, but I think thank god for the kids, it is them and our love for them that will get us through.
