ok please understand. I'm trying to help protect you. MIL trying to claim you violated the TRO is what I'm concerned about. Stay alert. They are trying to set you up. My guess is still that full custody is the goal. Then she deals with you less and gets more money. She may even eventually try to get you to sign parental rights away. Seen this before. And trust me you might not think you'll be tempted. But once $50k in support backs up you might be tempted to get out from under it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018