Ok, I have had to to breathe, relax (errr...work), and simmer down. I'll just ask WW to pay for half of everything. No more of this "take her car away to win the battle". I'm doing that b/c I'm hurt and don't think she should drive our car to carry out her affair.

I'd like to drive our nice SUV more often, and I think I will let her know this. As for driving my car, I guess she can drive it. What the hell? Maybe she'll feel like a POS for doing the same thing in my vehicle that she's done in our vehicle.

I will discuss sharing feelings with my counselor vs. DB'ing harder. See what we think. You guys are great, so thanks for commenting.

Oh, and my next check is not going into the joint account, which is dry as of today (not that WW left much in there).


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.