You might be right vanilla. It might be too early, but then why am i giving him exclusivity?
Where i live, there are tons of single guys. I have talked to male patients close to my age that tell me how hard it is to find a normal woman. I am relatively normal, so am seen as a good catch for someone my age.
We both agreed that it is hard to get to know someone when you are dating a lot of people at the same time. But maybe i was wrong. I was coming from a mindset of loyalty and relationships when i met him.
Maybe i should have just dated more and built friendships? I would not sleep with someone unless i thought long term potential and loyalty though.
I dont know. Maybe im rushing things.
I kind of feel how joe does though. Or thats the kind of guy i would want.
