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Then it will eventually be handled in court.


If you want to ensure that she answers all of your questions regarding your son I would suggest you have it clearly spelled out in your D decree. My decree clearly states that the major decisions are joint but it does not get granular on the day to day stuff like what your asking about.

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You tell me Joseph.


This is your way of trying to make her look bad and you get great joy out of doing it. Since you can't stick it to her directly because of the RO you try to stick it to her by asking questions about your S that you know she won't answer.

She won't answer them because it will make her look bad but you continue to ask because you can.

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This will be par for the course for the next 15 years.


Your probably right, so what are your goals regarding your co-parenting R and are you modeling the appropriate behavior?


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018