Ok - So what if she never gives it to you? The transparency and truth. What if she continues to stick and move, dodge questions, etc. for the next 15 years?
Are you doing this to get ammunition on her for court since having the OM around will look bad upon her? Is that the reason why she is not being transparent? If it is then accept this type of banter and not getting your questions answered will continue probably until the D is final. If you think about it that way then maybe it won't bother you as much.
