Advice on my Scenario Pt. 15-Lighthouse Guardsman

[OrangeK]

OK - If she answered the question truthfully how would that change things for you?

It would show me she is somewhat, SOMEWHAT committed to being honest and transparent when it comes to the MUTUAL job we have of parting S3.

What would you do differently?

Talk to her less, as i would have less to discuss if i knew where my son was at all times.

What if OM picked him up?

He does, and has, several times. His name is on the pickup card at school, its no big secret. I just dont want to be lied to. OM has been a part of S3's life of over a year now, Nothing i can do to change that. S3 sleeping at his house is another matter. They all share a bed when this happens. Not cool.

Do you simply want to know because he is your son?

Yes. Simply that.

What is your true motivation?

Being spoken to and respected as my sons father, not treated like some glorified babysitter that has to be lied to.

What is truly driving your need to know? What would change if you found out?

I do know. She just hasn't flat out said it, because she knows the time and level of exposure to an affair partner is irresponsible and will look bad for her in court.
As i said, i just want transparency and truth.
Respect. All i am asking for.