Does this seem like things are unraveling for her? She was a bit frantic and erratic yesterday, and here are some things i think are wearing on her.
1.) she hasn't started her new training program at work yet for some reason, she was supposed to start in Jan.
2.) She blew up her car's motor and has been driving OM's truck for well over a month now.
3.) She seems to have caused a rift between her mother/stepdad and her. She may not even be living there now.
4.) SIL said she looked tired, and like she was "trying very hard to keep up the act" when she saw WW yesterday.
5.) She is forgetting things like Daycare stuff, items for S3's backpack and whatnot more frequently.
Doesn't really sound like things are "unraveling" for her, it just sounds like she's busy. I think you're focusing way too much on your W and what the tea leaves mean when you should be focusing on your awesome new life.
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Originally Posted By: OrangeK
WW never replied about the folder or lunchbox.
I messaged MIL.
ME: Did his Lunchbox and School Folder get left at your house? it was not in his bag yesterday and i messaged WW about it and she hasnt answered me. If other people are packing S3's bag for her, they need to know what goes in it.
MIL: They were taken out when he want to FIL's on Saturday as they werent needed, then when she was rushing to get to your brothers house they were overlooked in error. She dropped them off this morning, nobody else packed his school bag. It was Just an oversight.
I Replied to group text with WW and MIL.
ME: Oh, S3 told me that OM had watched him all day while WW was at work, and that he fed him dinner, and that "Mama got me from OM's house and brought me to Aunties" which is fine. So thats why i mentioned someone else packing his bag. Otherwise i dont see why it would have been a problem for me to pick him up at your house, MIL, In (hometown).
Id just like us all to be on the same page in regards to communication and plans for S3, and that we arent ignoring eachother in communications about him. I want this all to run as smoothly as possible. Have a good day.
Your response should have been "OK, thank you." All the rest is not your business. You need to accept that whatever W is doing with S is HER business, YOUR business is what happens when he is with you. As long as he's not in danger it doesn't matter who is taking care of him, that's for W, OM and MIL to work out. Quit trying to inject yourself into the middle of that, that's just going to cause resentment.
