OK, this is dangerous stuff. My advice is to try to be as concise and only give need to know information. You worked the "S3 told me he was at OM's house all day yesterday" into the text. I still sense you being a tad passive-aggressive.

Look, after the RO is lifted and you two are D'd go to town. But right now you have to walk on eggshells. Bend over backwards if you have to. Truth will come out, you don't have to try and root it out.

I still feel she is going to try to goad you into a meltdown. I think her end game is a) to get as much custody as she can (including and up to full custodY) and b) therefore as much child support as she can.

Your interactions with her between now and final rulings on this stuff will be key to those rulings. Don't focus at all on her, just stay focused on you and your precious little S.

She sounds like a bridge burner so yes it wouldn't be surprising if her and her mom had a falling out. At all.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018