Makes total sense and you are right. I am trying to inject logic and the past character into the equation when it is not the same person and they are not logical.

I know there is no sense in this situation. When I say that it is hard, I mean that I struggle daily in my own mind that this situation is so unrealistic and dealing with it in the db'ing way seems to be working, but it just stinks.

She will let things sit for a day or so and then push again. Each time moving a touch closer but doing absolutely nothing concrete. When she was threatening yesterday, I told her we had almost everything done accept the lease on the home and her getting her vehicle out of my name. Asked how she wanted to deal with the car and her response was "I'll have to think about it this week and let you know". This was the same response 3 months ago, 2 months ago and last month.

She looks at me with such contempt, not hatred yet but I do see it going that way at times.

No idea what is going through her mind.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18