The fact is i did No Contact for a long while and it didn't work.
What do you mean NC "didn't work"? What results were you expecting to see come from NC?
Sandi2,
Thanks for checking into my thread. My wife said during the last few months, she felt since i didn't contact that I have forgotten her as I had gone completely dark. In a way it worked for her to miss me very much. She Questioned me - Where I was when she was roaming alone in ice cold snow winters? Where I was when she was sobbing profusely alone and going through difficult times? where I was when I should have atleast asked if she was even dead or alive. Even our mutual friends did not even contact and ask how she was doing. She thinks i stopped them due to selfish reasons so they dont get to know her side of story. She felt isolated and alone and was in pain when she spoke with me. It may be manipulative or not, but I really felt for her. She said for a long time to come she will be alone. She wanted me to send her my wedding card so she can hopefully move on in her life as well. Nevertheless she still wants to proceed with divorce on the July 6th. I have decided to withdraw my consent as its not the right thing to do. She may be belligerent, may take a TRO or curse me, I really don't care. I will simply withdraw my consent and love her from distance and pursue once in a while based on her moods. I will continue my GAL while she finds a new way to divorce me. Let me know your thoughts?
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
