My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 3

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Thanks Gordie & Steve. mmaybe you missed it but I got up and left the restaurant after she was being rude, but maybe I missed your point too. I am getting stronger in that regard. I just need to pull my support financially as well.

As for our SUV, I think I'm going to let her know that since I'm paying for it, I'm going to drive it but that I'd like to sell it.

If she asks about driving my car, who cares I guess. I may ask her "You're comfortable with driving my car to commit adultery? You have your own."

I feel like such a pursuer right now, but some of this has to be made real in her mind.

I've been considering hiring a DB coach but it just seems so expensive for 50 min phone calls. That's my hangup at this point. Maybe if they read my sitch on here first and had some background I'd consider it, but again I doubt that would happen.