Cory - I think I'm a few weeks behind you, but how you describe your life, your W, her change into a cold-hearted 'alien' and how you are feeling at such a pivotal moment could be describing me and my life right now.
We are about to tell the kids we are going to D after a whirlwind 10 week nightmare period of limbo, and she wants to do it fast as will not move out until its final, and it's killing me.
I'm not sure I have too many words of advice - Joseph, Gordie and Steve have probably hit that perfectly - I will be trying to follow it myself. Just to wanted to add my support for you, and for you to know that if you can stay strong through this, it would give me confidence to do so myself. Things must get better on the other side, as Joseph says - we just can't see it yet from the eye of the storm. That's what we've got to believe.
Stay strong Cory - we're with you man.
_______________________________________________ M47 W50 T-21 yrs M-19 Yrs S17 S15 D12 Found out about A 04/12/18 BD 04/15/18 Admitted A, name of AP and separate rooms 04/29/18 Told kids 07/22/18