I would not waste my time in a relationship unless i thought there was long term potential. I am looking for a blending of families. Not 2 people living separatly and dating every other weekend. I made this very clear in the beginning and he indicated that he is looking for similar, or i would have never continued dating him.
I would rather be by myself then have a casual relationship without a blending of families.
I waited 6 months before introducing him to son and that was in a group setting.
They had 1 other short walk together and then another group setting.
I have my son all week and every other weekend. So my son and i come as a package. I like it when his daughtwr is around. And i understand that not every guy wamts to deal with another mans kid. But like i said, i dont want to date someone if they feel like that.
Is 10 months too early to determine this? I would think at this point he would want to start forming a relationship withbmy som amd i or else it camt possobly develop going on the way it is.
I am definitly shutting down and unable to open up my "heart" with him. Which makes it impossible to develop a healthy relationship. I need to make sure all my decsiobs keep my son first.
Heres the funny thing. Men tend to pursue womem that shut down or are not available. I had so many single guy friends of friends that wanted to date me when i was still obsessed with ex. Sometimes i hate men for this. (No offense to the guys here)
