The fact is i did No Contact for a long while and it didn't work. She took it otherwise. Manipullation or changing statements, she still has some feelimgs for me. But she is too stubnorn to let go off her ego. So i need to take a stand of stopping this divorce from my end. She can go ahead and refile divorce or do whatever the heck she wants. I will withdraw my consent as its not the right approach. I know she will go nuts mad at me and stuff. But that is the right way.
I support that move. If you are against D then you should never be the one to file and do the work.
But I would suggest you keep DBing. GAL, 180s, detachment and being the spouse only a fool would leave.
Going Dark, or LRT is for a very specific set of circumstances. Lots of DBers confuse detachment with going dark. It isn't the same thing.
My original point was to NOT pursue, but to DB with the approach I mentioned, but not by going dark.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
