Originally Posted By: RR17
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1st question: Yes it is possible, but I doubt it. Because:
2nd question: More than likely she is trying to nice you and wait you out until " I will say that I find myself daydreaming of what a future without W would look like. I kind of like what I see. I know it is fantasy." becomes what you want and you do the work to D.


In my experience, they are more likely to Miserable you into doing the D work. So she wants to Nice me into imaging a future without her? Hmm? Get me to move forward by showing me what I have been missing in this relationship?
Am I understanding this correctly?

And I get the conscience part.



Possibly. Not being nice didn't get you to move. So if she is nice, but withholds intimacy and sex, maybe you'll get tired of the new normal and chase your daydream. Then her conscience is alleviated. "He left me!"

Anyway, we are mindreading. Just stay the course. Her being nice is better than her being not nice. It could be the start of her turning back to the MR, it is simply to early to tell.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018