1st question: Yes it is possible, but I doubt it. Because: 2nd question: More than likely she is trying to nice you and wait you out until " I will say that I find myself daydreaming of what a future without W would look like. I kind of like what I see. I know it is fantasy." becomes what you want and you do the work to D.
In my experience, they are more likely to Miserable you into doing the D work. So she wants to Nice me into imaging a future without her? Hmm? Get me to move forward by showing me what I have been missing in this relationship? Am I understanding this correctly?
And I get the conscience part.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.