Thanks Steve.
Trying to get a grip and handle on the D situation. Great insight on she is a kid (will always be my baby girl) and the emotions she is dealing have to be dealt with and focused somewhere. With her knowledge of living through the health issues of her Mom, I clearly acknowledge that my D is very protective of my W, holds her in her mind as a hero (and I love this), and still believes that her Mom might actually be able to support a home on her own. Just clarifying the last sentence is not a jab at my wife, merely the knowledge that my D adores and idolizes my W because there is no true knowledge of the real world).

Figuratively just talking myself off of a ledge this morning. With reflecting on yesterday, worried every moment of the day what might happen, and terrified of the future, it is tough to get the motivation to push through the day. I am not fatalistic. I am just trying to weigh the options on what I never thought I'd contemplate. At what point do I need to take control and get this moving forward?

I love my wife.

My only desire is to see her and my children happy.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18