ME: Good morning, pickup at 5pm at your mothers house as usual tonight?
WW: Good Morning, I can drop him off to you at 5 if you'd like.
ME: Ill have to see if anybody else will be around, ill let you know. Otherwise ill just come get him from your stepdad like usual.
ME: I just checked, My roommate wont be home, so we'll have to pick up at your moms.
WW: My mom will be at work and there might not be anyone else there. He will be fine walking to the door/ to you inside if i drop him off, we dont have to see each-other.
ME: What is your step dad working? Your boyfriend wont be around to bring him out? is he working or something?
WW: Stop it.
ME: What? it was a legit question.
ME: I cant be within 300ft of you.
WW:The order i have in writing states you cant enter my pace of residence, and can only communicate in writing about S3. That's It.
ME: That is inaccurate. Meeting at my house is not an option today. Im sorry for that. I can meet at your mothers at 5 like we normally would. And i really wasnt trying to be sarcastic about metting up with your boyfrien for pickups or drop offs. He is obviously a big part of S3's life now and if he is able to pick up S3 from school, he can help participate in pickups and drop offs too. I have no hard feelings, and will have no issue meeting with him if thats what we need to do to co parent. I am going for my run now. Let me know what you want to do. Talk to you later.
1.5 hrs later - ME: Or you could just drop him off at my brothers house.
WW: If i have to i will....
ME: Why cant we just do pickup at your moms like usual?
WW: Speaking of your brother, do they have a friend named Oliva or something? S3 has been asking to go to "Olivia's House" He says its far away and stuff?
WW: I will Just drop him off at your brothers house...
ME: Oliva is 5. She is Sister-In-Law's friends, daughter. They play together. Ill them to expect you at 5pm.
WW: That is cute. Is he with your brother and his wife a lot?
ME: He is with all 3 of us alot.
WW: HE talks a lot about being with them without you. I was just curious. Also, i will need to swing by my house on my way to your brothers, as that is out of the way for me and I hadnt planned on going there today. I might be a bit past 5.
ME: Well if hes with them i usually am too.
Me: Ok.
WW: Still going to double check and see if anyone will be home at my house.
--------------------------------- After Drop off:
ME: Wait, if your step dad was leaving before 5pm, and you get out of work at 4pm and home at 4:30, where was S3 all day? Who was he with?
ME: Also, whoever packed his bag forgot his lunch box, shoes, and school folder. Please drop those off at school tomorrow or have them dropped off by whoever packed his bag. ------------------------------------------------------ During this time SIL was also talking to her about drop off arrangements. SHe accused me of not being flexible with the scheduling, and that i was being stubborn about 5pm. She NEVER ONCE suggested a different time for me to go to her Mother house. Because she wasn't there, and wouldn't be, she was lying to my sister in law, like SIL Wouldn't show me exactly what was said.... We both found it odd she was dodging the question about why we couldnt just meet at her moms as usual. As i said in previous post, i think her and her mom had a blow out and she may not be living there anymore. Which is a big no-no for the courts. Yet again she blew her own cover with her inability to keep her lies in order.
When i saw S3, at my brothers, he told me he had been at OM's house all weekend and slept there Sat-Sun, and that OM had watched him all day Sunday while WW was at work.
I am getting the lawyer involved in this ASAP. Not for COntact with OM, that has been happening for ages, but if she is living there now and didnt tell anyone thats very illegal, i deserve to know where my son is being kept.
----------------------------------- Meanwhile she had asked my sister in law about the check for the Dr. At this point, in the last 5 days she has said all of the following regarding this check for Dr.
1.) I already wrote it, its in the mail to you OrangeK. 2.) I havent written it yet, i am waiting on checks. 3.) Oh i had written it to you OrangeK then you told me you are paying back SIL with it, so ill just write it to her. Yesterday. 4.) How much was that check for again? I need to write it for SIL. 5.) She gave it to SIL yesterday dated for 6/21.
She cant keep her stories straight.
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Does this seem like things are unraveling for her? She was a bit frantic and erratic yesterday, and here are some things i think are wearing on her.
1.) she hasn't started her new training program at work yet for some reason, she was supposed to start in Jan.
2.) She blew up her car's motor and has been driving OM's truck for well over a month now.
3.) She seems to have caused a rift between her mother/stepdad and her. She may not even be living there now.
4.) SIL said she looked tired, and like she was "trying very hard to keep up the act" when she saw WW yesterday.
5.) She is forgetting things like Daycare stuff, items for S3's backpack and whatnot more frequently.
Friday Night i drove up north, and parked at my favorite Mountain (5,280ft), slept for an hour, and started hiking at 1:30am. I got to the summit at 4:15am, and sat and watched the most amazing, beautiful sunrise i have EVER Seen. I wish i could post a photo!!
Then Saturday (after a 3 hr nap, post hiking) i randomly met a pretty cool woman, we had coffee, chatted and exchanged numbers.
Sat Night my SIL had her 30th Bday party, which was great, and Yesterday i got ready to move in with Brother and SIL. Hung out with S3 all afternoon. Great weekend.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
