A familiar story with questions. V

[SteveLW]

"Here is a question. Is it possible that W is trying to see if making the changes that I have expressed were issues in the past? To see where it goes.

At the same time, withholding the parts that she feels will demonstrate that she is happy or satisfied within the R. Make sense? "

1st question: Yes it is possible, but I doubt it. Because:
2nd question: More than likely she is trying to nice you and wait you out until " I will say that I find myself daydreaming of what a future without W would look like. I kind of like what I see. I know it is fantasy." becomes what you want and you do the work to D.

WAWs/WWs try to alleviate their own conscience in lots of ways. One way is to have the LBH do the D work. "I was unhappy so he D'd me!"

My advice is to stay the course. Keep GAL, detaching lovingly and 180ing. She is showing signs of softening but you can't trust it yet. Limbo is the gift of time. Use that time to be the spouse only a fool would leave!