Also found out a little more about his marriage. I asked if he had ever considered reconciling with his wife (he's been divorced for 4 or 5 years).
He said he thought about trying for a second, until he learned that she had raided their girl's' college savings accounts while they were married. I asked what she had spent it on; he said he wasn't sure but one of his daughters once said she thought her mom had bought her (mom's) boyfriend a truck!
Sounds like she may not have been faithful in the marriage but he was. In fact, he hasn't slept with anyone since his divorce (but he's quite keen to sleep with me!) . That feels like a lot of responsibility - I think he's a nice guy and definitely worth getting to know better, but not an instant attraction on my part (to be fair, in the past that has usually led me into relationships with Live Avoidants so it is not necessarily a trustworthy indicator).
