Cory, just go in with your head held high, keep it high throughout, and leave with your head held high. Do not say how you feel. Only ask direct questions if you have them, and only answer direct questions if asked.
Signing D papers doesn't mean you have no hope of R. Quite the opposite actually. Lots of couples have D'd and then successfully R'd.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018