Just a quick update.

All is continuing status quo. W continues to treat me with consideration and respect. No affection or intimacy, but the rest is the makings of a happy M/R.

I continue to not care much. I have other things to focus on. I will say that I find myself daydreaming of what a future without W would look like. I kind of like what I see. I know it is fantasy. Just sharing.

Here is a question. Is it possible that W is trying to see if making the changes that I have expressed were issues in the past? To see where it goes.

At the same time, withholding the parts that she feels will demonstrate that she is happy or satisfied within the R. Make sense?

I know that the above scenario is not a proper recon. I am wondering if in a female type of way W thinks she is somehow working on the R without admitting to working on the R.

Thanks


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.