My little daughters 2 - securing their future

[SteveLW]

Arsh, you did pretty well. Obviously the finance discussion went poorly.

My advice, say less. Validate (reread that thread), and then listen.

When he starts yelling or swearing do exactly what you did "I will not discuss this with you being irrational" and walk away.

He is angry at his situation, but it is of his own creation! He is more angry at himself than he is at you. Just try to remember that.

I predict that he won't be moving out in a month. WASs are often times all talk and no action. I could be wrong but I think he realizes that his future life is a "fantasy". And that is another reason he is so angry.