bump-can I get an opinion from a WAW/WW my intent is not to mind read but just to understand. Thanks.
just was thinking how is she holding up? The reason I say that is -so far because S is been permanently living with me. She has not seen r spoke to him in quite awhile. She has never asked me for updates. For all I know she may even think S failed one of his classes. I know she texts him but he says he has never responded. I feel it has got to be getting to her at some point. I know for me- without S - I have no reason to get up and my sole purpose aside from being the best me is to provide the best for my S. It would absolutely KILL me if he was not around.
At some point S may soften his stance and I will support him but it has to be doing something to her do you not think?
Are you asking why your W does not appear to have the same level of interest/concerns for S as you do?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
