Read the pursuit and distance threads in newcomers and MLC

You are still playing the game

She is pursuing you and you are happy and feel things are better

I hope they are

But fear this is just a cycle

And she will distance again

And you will freak out

This is a very hard cycle to break

The answer is to be steady and detached and independent

If she pursues you fine

If she distances fine

It does not affect you in any way whatsoever

You are living your life independent of her

You are happy and content no matter what she chooses to do

And your life is so awesome

She eventually wants to get on the Clyde bandwagon


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving