Read the pursuit and distance threads in newcomers and MLC
You are still playing the game
She is pursuing you and you are happy and feel things are better
I hope they are
But fear this is just a cycle
And she will distance again
And you will freak out
This is a very hard cycle to break
The answer is to be steady and detached and independent
If she pursues you fine
If she distances fine
It does not affect you in any way whatsoever
You are living your life independent of her
You are happy and content no matter what she chooses to do
And your life is so awesome
She eventually wants to get on the Clyde bandwagon
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving