Originally Posted By: Gordie
Cory09

She is only thinking of herself right now

You cannot control her

And cannot do anything to make her hear you

You can only control you

I followed the advice here to generally avoid all R discussions

And that was great advice

But only you know you and your situation

When w would say she loves me

At some point it hurt too much

I told her stop saying that

She insisted

If you loved me you would not treat me like do do

We got in a big fight

All of my anger spilled out

It was healthy for me after bottling it up for so long

And it did help to turn things around for me

She dropped her OM and the divorce

It is in the somewhere in the book under after LRT and ultimatums

You can only do and say these things when you really mean them

And are willing to follow through
Gordie, what was your ultimatum that came out of the fight?

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.