Some interesting updates. Normally I pick up S3 at my mother-in-law's house. I asked wife today if I was picking him up there as normal and she said that she could drop him off with me at my house. I told her that due to the restraining order that would not work as nobody else would be home. my sister-in-law has reported to me before that there is definitely some tension between wife and mother-in-law and I think that wife may have actually gotten told not to stay there anymore. however her mother's house is her listed address on all of the divorce paperwork and it says that if there is a change of residence you need to report it to the court and the other party immediately and if you do not it is perjury. I told her she could drop him off at my brother's house Which she was not pleased about but eventually did because she had no other options. she told both my sister-in-law and myself that S3 had been at her mother's house all day but her father-in-law was leaving and that's why he couldn't be picked up there. Once my son was dropped off at my brother's I went there and he proceeded to tell me that he spent the entire day yesterday at om's house, that he slept at OMS house and that om was the one who watched him all day well wife was working. she was late and dropping him off at my brother's house because she had to go from her work 2 OMS house And then from there to my brothers. she was acting very erratic and off-balance today and my sister-in-law said that's how she was in person when she was dropping off S3. she has a history of using her mother and discarding her when she is not of use she did it early on in our relationship. As I have not been snooping I don't know exactly what went wrong over at her mother's house between her and her mother but something is definitely off. I think she is finally starting to experience some loss and repercussions of using people.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds