W just picked S up. She has informed me that from now on, she will only use the monitored parking spaces at the local police department, because she's "not comfortable" around me. I pointed out that the only reason she's not comfortable is her own guilt.
She has been bringing friends to pick up S. Today, she brought the couple that has been slandering me. He's a cop. They were in his private car, off duty, and they sat on the road without coming onto the property.
I told him he's not welcome here. He said "I'm on the road, that's now how it works."
I sent him a text message requesting that he stay away from my apartment complex.
I sent a LONG text to W.
"There is absolutely no reason to bring anyone to my apartment. You are only not comfortable because of your own guilt. I have asked [names withheld] to stay away. I am not interested in feeling like a threat when you and I both know that I have never threatened you at all. You keep playing the helpless, victimized, single mom, but the truth is that you just wanted to sleep with other people. I am not playing your games. You need to consider the feelings of people other than yourself for once. I am not interested in arguing with you, or anything like that. I am only interested in S well-being at this point, and your games are making everything more difficult. You bring other men around our S, you insist on having people watch me like a hawk (I honestly don't care about their opinions, but I am not interested in being made into a laughing stock or feeling like my privacy at home is being threatened). You move S appointments around just to be difficult (I can simply call the dr's office...and I set up the last appt you moved...I don't care if you're present, and I'm willing to take him myself without you) just to control things. You need to stop acting like a 15 year old throwing a tantrum and start acting like a grown woman with a son. He is NOT an inconvenience to me, and you need to quit pushing his care off to fit your personal whims. Your lack of communication is what got us into this situation, as did your selfishness. But do not bring anyone else near my apartment. Whether they sit on the road or not, they are NOT welcome here. And since we have no written agreements in place, I do not have to honor your requests to meet at any specified location. I have no intention or interest in being your doormat."
Ugh. I'm furious. I'm sick to death of people coming to monitor my dealings with W and S. It's enraging. I'm not a child, and I don't feel like this is going well at all.
I know that there's nothing I can do about him coming to my apartment and sitting on the road. But he's a cop. He's also a...well, the board will censor me if I say what I think of him and his wife.
