So today starting out rough I decided to pull out the DB book again. I reread the Last resort technique. I also read the part after. I should have read it sooner. It's exactly what has happened. Basically saying when it is working, do not come on to strong or the WAS can back peddle. I'm going to keep reading. It really seems to help me. For whatever reason when I read the book I feel motivated and not so hopeless.
