Can I really do this #3

[HelenaJ]

"I know you guys are separating and I don't want to spend every other week with you. We have grown apart and I really don't even like you that much".

Man. That hurts. If this was me, I'm thinking I'd be looking at baby steps to change the R between the two of you for the better. Nothing big or she'll get suspicious and maybe rebel against it. Think small. What does she like? Bring her home her favorite candy bar and just set it on the counter, don't make it a big production of giving it to her. Make her favorite dinner, again, don't say anything about it, just do it. Rent a movie with her in mind and casually ask her if she wants to watch it. Key-she has to know you're watching it yourself either way. Take her to a movie if you think she'd be open to it. Just look at ways to spend time with her however small....someone needs to drive her to her friends house? You'll do it! Take her to the mall? You'll do it! See where I'm going with that?