I remember in my 20s, after my ex-gf and I broke up, she moved into a new apartment complex. There were many times that I would drive a few miles out of my way to drive by her apartment. It was a very difficult thing to break myself of especially since it was a legit way to drive home from work.

LW and mtb, you both are right though. There is nothing to gain by it. Most of the time I did it I felt like crap about myself afterwards.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018