Thanks for all your responses. They do help me dealing with this crazy time.

So todays antics.

W comes home from work and spends most her time in daughters room. Its my day to make dinner so i get to it and make a roast dinner for all of us. Everyone enjoys thier dinner.

So W parents ring on skype, she then retreats to her bedroom and closes the door. Finishes speaking to them and comes back out and sits at the dinning room table. I speak to my daughter and explain i may have a few trips planned in the next few months. When my business venture starts off.

So 20 minutes later the W comes in and says i need to give her notice if im planning any trips, i said off course i will give you plenty of notice. 10 minutes later she approaches me and says she is saving to get a bond for a rental, she also will be saving for furniture, i said she could take the stuff from down stairs, she just looks at me, then says i need a washing machine. Blah blah, blah. I said she could take the fridge and freezer from outside, she started getting a bit nasty, so i say, i dont think this is a good time to talk about this as D12 is about 2m away in bedroom with the door open, i said it is quite insensitive to the kids. She tells me f*** o** and storms off. I still stayed upbeat and pleasant after this. I think it does her head in, when i show it doesnt phase me.

And has been ignoring me for the rest of the night. I'm finding it quite comical some times.

Another day in paradise.