One the way to the flight. W was awfully quite on the last day. I did not initiate any conversation, but only responded her and tried to validate. One month apart might help cool things down. From multiple arguments we had before, I learned that W is not determined to divorce legally. She is certainly not in love with me for now, but she probably doesn't know what to do yet, other than keep separated in the house. When I recall the entire process, it seems I have only been making things worse. W's attitude was much better and warmer right after BD than now. The begging, crying and reasoning really did some damage. Hopefully that's still reversible.

Sandi's Rule #1 is sooo important!


H: 31 W:31
M: 6 T: 10
S: 4
BD: 12/2017
In house separation: 12/2017