Gordie, I really liked your post. It hit home for me. Hopefully it does for Cory too.
I've been putting off "letting her go". I am on the verge of making things real for her by separating our joint account and by taking "her"/"our" car that she doesn't want to pay for anymore.
It's easy to be afraid of rocking the boat, but the WW sure has few of those fears.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.