So i had some issues with son. Texted ex about it and his responses and advise was fair, rational, valid amd comforting.

Yet he is the mam that left me and my son. He lied or deflected regarding our marital finances.

I am having trouble with this. Cause hes supposed to be a villain. Yet he is not as bad or as cruel as a lot of the other waywards.
He was whem he was leaving and before he left. But not now.

I feel thrown off. And dont understand why.

Maybe hes happy now. He got his way. Doesnt have to be married to me anymore. Thats all he wanted. Was to get away from me.

He still seems to have financial issues though.. has to give me money a little at a time, yet earns a lot, has a new luxury car and lives with his mom (i think) so something off.

So howncan he be nice, yet left me. Was i that bad of a person at the core?


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer