Am I Piecing, or Pi$$ing in the wind???

[Clyde]

How classic. Starts to think you are for real and she wont get her way, then lures you back in with sex.....

and it works!

I am sorry to be really hard with the truth here, but she knows what she has in her power, because it works so easily.

Ginger,

No need to apologize, please keep it real, I appreciate your candidness.

What you are saying crossed my mind even before it unfolded. It's hard to know if she is being genuine, what ever the case it is a change in tides. At this point I plan on moving forward eyes wide open, with caution and the knowledge of how she has conducted herself to date.

I am seeing other advances other than in the bedroom. A few days ago I was replanting my plumeria plants for the season, I needed new/bigger pots for them... I told her I was going to go get them, she said she could pick them up as she needed to go to the hardware store anyhow, (I have a lot of plumerias) cost of the pots is well over $100, I said sure - that would be great, thx. I did not offer her any money, nor did she hesitate waiting for me to do so, rather she went and got them.

This a.m. I woke with a severe migraine, I get them because of my neck injury. They are pretty intense and most case cause me to vomit, light/noise sensitivity etc, other than taking Vicodin & muscle relaxers the only way to combat these migraines is via a massage to get my neck muscles to release. When I told her I had the migraine she offered to massage me... a real massage on the massage table, not a quick back rub while sitting in front of her.

I wear my heart on my shoulder, it was not hard to LRT the last few weeks as I was truly getting to the end of my rope. Now, given the change and her pursuit, I'm finding it hard to find that middle ground, be the squirrel sitting still as AS put it. Last night and this a.m. I was a little withdrawn, maybe too much - as where prior to that I may have been too warm since she started to aggressively pursue me.