Sandi2,

So should i just continue with detaching and GAL? When i confirm, unequivocally that there is an affai, i will comfront her and ask her to leave. Depending on her reaction, i may entertain the possibility of living together if she resigns from that company and leaves OM. Im going to the gym, asserting myself w confidence, having great success at work...anything that im missing? Im determined to fight for marriage. I WILL NEVER QUIT!!