Yeah that is exactly how i works. You stop pursuit and pull back and she quits running, and eventually may pursue you herself. Just be careful how you react. Do you know the squirrel analogy? If you are feeding a wild squirrel you hold the nut out and remain perfectly still. They will VERY SLOWLY approach, but if you make any ANY movement to try and close the gap it sends them scurrying off again and the process starts all over. But eventually if you have the patience to hold perfectly still, the squirrel will finally reach you.
AS,
We must of been posting at the same time lol, what you posted above answers the question I was asking in my last post. Reflecting on the last 4-5 days i would say I did not stay still, rather tried to close the gap. Time to slow down, patience, time once again to shift gears.
The squirrel analogy is great!
Thank you
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