My little daughters 2 - securing their future

[Vanilla]

Abusers who are systemic don't shift or get realizations, they like abusing and they do so to get control. They adapt sure but change is illusionary.

Abusers of this type don't grow, mend or have sudden insights into their behaviour. They don't make amends.

They are disordered and it is considered they are incurable.

They are dangerous emotionally. The only response in my view is NC, grey rock and get the hell away.

I am very clear on it. If they come back it's fake.

Those are very clear unequivocal views.

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