WAW - managing limbo period

[40free]

Hi Neffer - thanks for taking the time to read my posts and feed back. It is much appreciated and feels good to have the support through this very difficult time.

Also good to hear from someone who has been to the other side and come back - there's hope I guess, but to help me get through this I am convincing myself that there is none. Certainly everything I'm hearing from my W confirms this, and I also know she has seen her solicitor today so is definitely taking her decision and pushing on with it. Detaching is absolutely the only way forward.

And yes, boundaries are the next thing. Need to figure those out and stick to them. I am certainly trying to stay strong. Going to have to when we do eventually tell the kids who are going to be devastated.

Thanks again!