Did that make it easier? I am not sure, I did not experience having a live in MLCer. You would think it would be easier, not having her come and go. However, the lack of her presence, the emptiness, it never ceases - a nonstop reminder, a constant reinforcement to attachment.
I found I needed to heal quit a bit before I could figure out how to let go.
I needed time to learn how to accept what was happening, to stop struggling against it.
It is so very difficult. Keep at it. You will find peace.
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
