I'm interested in your opinion of my latest conundrum...You suggested to give her space and time...I have not been contacting her at all but responding to her contact, which she has contacted me just about every single day..It seems like she wants her cake and eat it too...I've been kind of in between a rock and a hard place...When I look at what has been working to break down her wall it has been communication but obviously not working that well because she wants to sign divorce papers in 3 days...In no way have I done anything that she would perceive as pursuing, I believe...Anyways, I've its been suggested that I do a 180 and go into the divorce meetings content and confident to move on..180's have also seemed to be working, when I wrote her the letter of release a couple of weeks ago saying good bye, she said that wasn't at all what she expected and her demeanor seemed to change, I'm guessing she expected me to try and change her mind, and she said Thank-you..I know in your postings you suggest tough love when it comes to WAW, any suggestions on how to go about my situation?? I plan on going dark as soon as we sign the papers...
