Hi 40
Sounds like you handled it well. Just a heads up though - she more than likely will carry on with the OM and you will play this conversation over in your head in the future thinking that you pushed her away more and regret that you dont see her everyday- its better that its not in front of you now I think this will help you detach and get out of this limbo. Dont believe what she says. My W was telling me that she just wanted space and did not have feelings for OM anymore- even the day she was walking out the door and keeping the peace- looking back though it was just so W could get what she wanted from the house and to improve her living standards and then jumped in full R with OM. As soon as she was all set up she cut off all communication and became a monster so beware. Even though you feel like progress has been made still stick with GAL and LRT and detach. Let her go and dont be helpful about it.


Me=32 W=29
R=12 yrs M=7 yrs
BD 02/18/18
Dd=3 S=6
Other man confirmed 06/10/18